Saturday, July 19, 2025

 Summering






Guess what?




I’m officially 

‘summering’.




I mean, we’re knee deep 

into July + we’ll be 

slip-sliding into August 

before you know it, ‘eh?




It’s Summer.


 


And it actually 

feels like it, too.


 


Woo-hoo!




The sun is shining

all over the place.




And I’m following it.


 


So, here’s to a bright,

relaxing + sunny

season.




(Sunday SideLines will 

be back in September.)








How are you spending 

your summer days?




I value you + your views

so, let's communicate!




Debby Barnes Sunday SideLines

Saturday, July 12, 2025

 Knowing Me Knowing You






Just reading this line 

makes us think about 

Abba’s melancholic 

chart topper, right?





And though this 

particular song’s lyrics 

are about breaking-up,

there’s a greater truth

in these four words.





We can’t actually know 

ourselves well until we

know each other better.





Being + becoming more 

than we are requires 

a conscious awareness;

a friendly familiarity 

with each other.





And this can happen 

in person or virtually,

as long as we communicate 

in order to get to know 

each other better.




When we share our 

experiences, our views, 

our opinions, our feelings

 AND our true selves,

we grow.






Individually + together.





You get to know me,

I get to know you.













How do you get 
to know  people?
And how do people 
get to know you?







I value you + you views,
so let's communicate!






Debby Barnes Sunday SideLines





 

Saturday, July 5, 2025

Internal Motivation




  

I wonder.


 

Do we ever take 

notice of our internal 

(or intrinsic) 

motivation?


 

You know, the stuff we 

enjoy doing for ourselves.


 

The vital activities 

that keep us sharp, 

happy + self-satisfied.


 

Whether it's planting, 

painting, sailing, or singing

 doing various things 

that we enjoy is a 

positive activity that 

will enhance our lives.


 

And any thing that 

enhances our lives 

usually makes us more 

effective all 'round.








What kind of creative 

things do you do for yourself?

 

 

I value you + your views, 

so let’s communicate!




Debby Barnes Sunday SideLines


Saturday, June 28, 2025

 Take Heart









Your...

 

strengths

 

abilities

 

gifts

 

skills + resources

 

...all fuel your inner 

spirit + make your soul’s 

torch burn brighter.


 

They bless others, 

activate your hope

AND help you stay 

encouraged.


 

As does your personal, 

professional + familial 

support system.


 

So, take heart:


‘That which led to 

triumphs past, 

will lead to triumphs 

future!’

D. A. Barnes







Pause a moment + list 

some of your finest 

qualities.




 

I value you + your views, 

so let’s communicate!




Debby Barnes Sunday SideLines